How Does a Psychologist Help with Asperger’s Syndrome?

How does a psychologist help with Asperger's Syndrome?

An Aspergers psychologist describes ways to help children and adults cope with Asperger’s Syndrome.

In my 20 years of work as an Aspergers psychologist, I have found six strategies that are most important in helping children and adults

with Asperger’s Syndrome.

Some of these strategies are more useful for children than adults and others are more suitable to certain individuals then they are to others. But overall, these strategies form a comprehensive treatment plan that ensures the most success in helping people cope with Aspergers.

Accurate Diagnosis

Without exception, the most important step in addressing Asperger’s Syndrome is obtaining an accurate diagnosis.

At first glance, some people with Aspergers may appear to be excessively shy, odd or awkward. They may be anxious, hyperactive, socially isolated or depressed. Anger management, procrastination, organizational problems and difficulty using information gained from one’s senses are frequent components of Aspergers.

Too often, these symptoms are seen in isolation, separate from each other, rather than viewed as parts of an overall condition. Therefore, Aspergers is never diagnosed.

There are also other medical conditions or disorders that can present symptoms that are similar to Aspergers. Eliminating these other conditions is part of the diagnostic process.

An accurate diagnosis becomes the basis for building an appropriate and effective treatment program.

Social Skills Training

Children and adults with Aspergers have difficulty recognizing and regulating their emotions. Their ability to empathize with others and use or respond to social cues is often compromised. The result is poor social support and isolation from others.

One of the main goals of an Aspergers psychologist is to provide training in understanding and learning basic socialization skills.

Interpreting body language, hand gestures, tones of voice and typical communication styles are emphasized in social skills training. Mastering the ability to sustain eye contact, attend to the subtleties of nonverbal communication and to appreciate genuine relationships with others are also important skills that are promoted.

Strength-Based Therapy

People with Aspergers can be incredibly resourceful in designing strategies to negotiate their way through a world that is to them very confusing and threatening.

Aspergers therapy includes interventions geared towards recognizing what people have already done to successfully adapt and builds upon those self-taught skills.

This means:

  • Teaching new thinking and behavioral skills to reduce problems at home, school and work
  • Encouraging self-acceptance
  • Teaching strategies to decrease or prevent symptoms of co-occurring conditions, such as depression, anxiety and hyperactivity.

Parent Coaching

An Aspergers psychologist will work with parents to help:

  • Sort through the implications of an Aspergers diagnosis
  • Cope with feelings of anger, guilt, sadness, blame, and frustration
  • Learn about and access resources for parenting children with Aspergers
  • Reduce uncertainty and stress in the parenting process.


Although there are no medications that specifically treat Aspergers, some of the associated symptoms of Aspergers, such as inattention and trouble focusing, obsessive-compulsive issues, anxiety and/or depression can be alleviated by medication.

Aspergers psychologists do not prescribe medication but can provide referrals to psychiatrists who are familiar with Aspergers and who can prescribe the appropriate medication for these symptoms.

Help is Available

The resources, support and assistance for addressing the challenges of Aspergers are available for children, adults and parents.

With the aid of those resources, together with the expertise of professionals, such as an Aspergers psychologist, those with Aspergers can overcome their problems and lead healthy, happy lives.

Dr. Kenneth Roberson is an Asperger’s psychologist in San Francisco with over 30 years of experience. To ask a question, or schedule an appointment,
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